Just over six years ago, my ex alienated me from our children, disconnected the phone and moved children without notice and without address for children, then the intimidating tactics and false allegations started, as well as threats of violence due to asking to see the children publicly, her family and friends have even been helping her ever since. She refuses any access and any correspondence and contact with children, I don't know if they are dead or alive. The psychological abuse and other abuse she is doing to me and the child, is domestic violence apparently supported by our government and society, asking for 50/50. Her threats of saying I am dangerous etc, and her gaslighting and baiting is also unbelievable, I don't know how to deal with the violence and threats